Abuela’s Letter

Happy and sporty Alma, a star basketball player in her school, can always rely on her number one fan to cheer her on. But when Abuela succumbed to her illness, Alma felt a deep sadness she had never felt before. Everything reminded her of Abuela, and nothing was the same. One day, the young girl discovers a letter from her late grandmother. Who knew a letter could fill one’s heart with love and joy?

Mexican-American counselor Debbie Zapata’s picture book Abuela’s Letter deals with grief over the death of Alma’s beloved Abuela (grandmother). The book offers a salve for families navigating the intense emotions of losing a loved one and showcases the author’s empathetic approach to supporting families and children. Colombian illustrator Alejandra Ruiz depicts the richness of Latine culture, centering on the closeness of a large, extended family, bonding over food, and friendships with primos (cousins).

Zapata provides a helpful and inspiring guide for parents and caregivers to shepherd their young ones through the pain of grief. The template for a “grief letter” is a thoughtful way to honor one’s emotions and fond memories of the departed. Written in English and Spanish, the grief guide shares tips and considerations as they help children cope with the death of a cherished elder.